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There is a general stigma that the public has about couples counseling. Be it shame or guilt that you feel because you assume that you should be able to figure it out on your own with your partner; most couples find it difficult to accept the fact that therapy can help. Unfortunately, most couples do eventually realize that they need couples counseling, however, by then, it may be overdue to seek the help you need. Here are 10 signs to watch for that is a good indication that you and your partner should try couples therapy for professional advice.
1. There is No Intimacy in Your Relationship
One of the few initial signs of a deteriorating romantic relationship is the lack of intimacy due to a lack of interest by either or both parties. It isn’t uncommon for your sex life to wind down a bit after being in the relationship for a length of time. However, there are concerns if there are substantial changes in the frequencies of being intimate with each other. If sex has not happened for a length of time or if sex becomes robotic and cold, couple’s counseling and even sex therapy should be considered.
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2. Fear of Communicating With Each Other
When arguments get blown out of proportion, fear can be built amongst specific topics of discussion, leading couples to avoid conversations altogether. It can be something as minute as annoying little habits that can eventually lead to a communication breakdown. If a partner is afraid to bring up specific issues, a licensed therapist can assist during the couple’s counseling session to clear up misunderstandings and steer a conversation healthily. Additionally, seeking anxiety treatment can help address underlying fears and improve communication in the relationship.
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3. Resentment
Arguments between couples come and go, but if you find that you are always resentful towards your partner, then you will need help addressing underlying issues. Couples counseling professionals often find that if their clients do not resolve past hurts and previous arguments, every future conversation will be tainted with negative feelings. Your tone towards your partner will resemble one full of guilt, shame, judgment, and insecurities, which will not be well received, leading to further arguments.
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4. Lack of Trust
A healthy relationship starts with trust, but trust is hard to earn and easy to breach. A couple that has put trust issues on the back burner is likely to feel the wrath of the breach of trust later on down the road. You may begin to see your partner as the enemy and feel as if you guys are on different sides. A couple should be on the same team, and emotional support should be sought from each other rather than outside the relationship with your friends, coworkers, and family members. When a partner develops a reliance on support outside of their spouse, it is an indication to seek couple’s counseling.
5. Keeping Secrets
As an individual, you have the rights to your privacy. However, as a couple, if you have secrets from each other, that can be disastrous for any relationship. Maintaining secret friendships, undisclosed financial resources, or where you spend your time are tremendous breaches of trust in relationships. Something is not right when a partner chooses to disclose some of their life, but not everything in their life is open to their partner.
6. Dishonesty about Finances
Marriages end and couples break up mainly because of finances and issues with managing money within a household. When a couple does not have a consensus about their funds, it is not long before significant arguments may ensue. Being dishonest about financial information such as purchases, credit card statements, and hidden receipts can lead to breaches of trust within a relationship. Seek help with couple’s counseling services, if this is the case, to address arguments about money immediately.
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7. His Life and Her Life
It may seem innocent at first; he has his beer buddies while she has her Merlot friends. However, if most social time is spent outside of the home away from one another, a couple should be concerned enough to consider couple’s therapy. While most families have hectic schedules in this day and age, a couple should not feel like roommates within a household. There may be periods of time where a couple will go through phases of disconnect, but it should not be a long-term without communication or intimacy. Spending long periods of time apart where one or both of you are no longer very interested in each other’s activities or life is a strong indication that both of you should book an appointment for couples counseling.
8. When One of the Partners Are Thinking about or Having an Affair
Even if you are just thinking of having an affair, it is enough evidence that you are seeking for something your mate cannot provide for you, regardless of whether that’s physical or emotional desires. Everyone fantasizes at some point or muse on what it would be like to be with someone else. Nonetheless, if either party have had an affair or begins to consider the plans for an affair, it is vital to consult with a couple’s counseling service to work out the best option to move forward. Instead of jumping into nasty litigations for a divorce, consider asking with a professional therapist to resolve the infidelity healthily first.
9. Lack of Communication
The deterioration of all relationships begins with the breakdown of communications. If you and your partner are starting to notice changes in the frequency of your interactions and quality of your conversations, it is imperative to consider the help of a professional in couples counseling.
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10. When Your Arguments Are Ongoing and Unresolved
Challenges in how to communicate effectively with a spouse can be stressful in a relationship. Every couple has their unique set of problems and disagreements that can last for a long time. When your arguments seem to repeat itself without a resolution in sight, it may be a good sign that you and spouse may need to commit to getting help. A couple’s counseling professional can help you learn new methods of communications to find common ground with your partner so that a healthy compromise can be made to move on with your relationship.
Remember, all couples go through their ups and down, but if your relationship is in distress, or you just could use a little help around particular issues, you can contact us for couples counseling. We’re also available for online counseling for the residents in California, Colorado, and Texas.
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I completely agree with your comment about the importance of couples counseling. Many couples often wait until their relationship is on the brink of collapse before seeking professional help. It’s essential to recognize the signs of trouble early on and take action to prevent further damage. Seeking help from a counselor is not a sign of weakness, but rather a brave and proactive step towards improving the relationship. Communication, trust, and intimacy are all essential components of a healthy relationship, and counseling can provide valuable guidance and support to help couples navigate these issues.
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